Word Power

Nazi leaders used it to inspire and mobilize a downtrodden
nation. J.F. Kennedy used it to restore our faith in America. Individuals, every day, use it to manipulate, encourage, slander, or praise the people closest to them. As the only animal endowed with the ability to master verbal language, man has been both blessed and cursed with the immense power of speech throughout all of the ages. I wonder sometimes if we have any idea how powerful we actually are, as a result of it.


Florence Scovel-Shinn published a book, “Your Word is Your Wand,”
in 1928, which acknowledged and emphasized the immense power of the spoken word,
stating, “So, man has the power to change an unhappy condition by waving over it
the wand of his word. In the place of sorrow appears joy, in the place of
sickness appears health, in the place of lack appears plenty…” 

Naturally, the spoken word has the opposite power as well. Take,
for example, the very sad story I heard this week about a woman who may have
died of a sudden, (stress, not plaque induced) heart attack. At last report, she
was in the intensive care unit, not responding. Immediately before the attack,
her husband was yelling at her, cursing her, telling her she was stupid and
worthless and that he wished she was not with him. Instantly, he received his
spoken wish. 

Whether the words, themselves, stopped her heart or if the words
caused the stress, and the stress then stopped her heart, ultimately, the words
came first. Do you see how powerful words can be? Let’s make certain, at least,
that we are speaking in such a way that has some chance
of producing the responses we want.  
 
It is one thing to recognize that a situation is not to our liking and, therefore,
begin to identify ways to correct it. It is quite another to invent and imagine negative
outcomes and speak of them as if they are real. It’s not only that words have the
power to shape a child’s self-esteem, or to encourage in times of hopelessness.
It is also that words define our reality for us. If you state, for example, that you are “not a
morning person,” you give yourself permission to be inconsiderate of others
until noon, fulfilling your own prophecy.  If you say, “this project will never
work,” you will look for the failure points and emphasize them in order to prove
that you are correct, whether you realize you are doing that or not. 
 
As it turns out, the childhood retort, “Sticks and stones will
break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” just isn’t true. Be careful of
your words, this week. Ask yourself, “If I were to receive this (whatever I’m
speaking) wish, would it be what I really want?” If the answer is no, change
your words. Stop complaining. Speak kindly to others. Speak encouraging words to
yourself. And have a lovely and powerful week. 


  

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